Finding the perfect present for her can feel like a lot of pressure, and for Christmas there's even more pressure to get things right. The good news? You don’t need to guess or panic-buy. With a little thought and a few clever tips, you can choose a gift that feels personal, meaningful, and genuinely special.
Here’s how to get it right every time.
1. Start With Her, Not the Occasion
It’s easy to focus on the event — but the best gifts are about the person. Think about her lifestyle, her personality, and what she enjoys day to day.
Ask yourself:
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Is she classic or trend-led?
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Practical or sentimental?
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Minimalist or someone who loves a statement piece?
A gift that reflects who she is will always feel more thoughtful than something chosen just because it fits the occasion.
We love the Pickles Sausage Dog Pencil Case by Barkworth Reeve - great for a fashionista as it can also be used as a clutch or a make-up bag. Available in 3 colours - chocolate, tan and tweed.
2. Pay Attention to the Little Clues
Often, the best gift ideas are hiding in plain sight. Has she mentioned something she loves, admired, or wishes she had? Notice what she wears, the colours she gravitates towards, or the brands and styles she already enjoys.
If she always reaches for soft knits, elegant accessories, or timeless jewellery, take that as your guide. Thoughtful gifts don’t have to be complicated — they just have to feel considered.
If she loves sweaters, we recommend the Barbour Norham Knitter Jumper
3. Choose Quality Over Quantity
One beautiful, well-made piece will always beat several forgettable ones. Whether it’s a cosy scarf, a luxurious handbag, or a carefully chosen piece of jewellery, quality shows care.
Look for items that:
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Feel good to the touch
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Are made to last
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Won’t go out of style next season
These are the gifts she’ll reach for again and again.
For a great winter Christmas gift, how about the Barbour Saltburn Beanie & Blair Scarf Set. Featuring a knitted beanie and tartan scarf, the set will offer her warmth and protection on cold days and comes neatly presented in a Barbour branded gift box.
4. Make It Personal
Personal doesn’t have to mean personalised (although that can be lovely). It simply means choosing something that feels her.
Consider:
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A colour she loves
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A piece that suits her everyday wardrobe
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Something she wouldn’t normally buy for herself
The most memorable gifts are often little luxuries — thoughtful treats that feel indulgent but still practical.
We love the Joules Harbour Cream Bird Printed Top - a versatile addition to every woman's wardrobe which she'll wear again and again.
5. When in Doubt, Accessories Are Your Friend
If clothing sizes feel risky, accessories are a safe and stylish choice. Scarves, bags, belts, and jewellery can elevate any outfit and don’t require guesswork.
They’re also perfect for adding personality — a pop of colour, an elegant texture, or a subtle statement that feels effortlessly chic.
A Barbour leather bag such as the Barbour Sorrel Leather Sling bag in black or brown is always a good bet.
The perfect present for her isn’t about spending the most money or following the latest trend. It’s about showing that you see her, know her, and have taken the time to choose something with care.
And that’s a gift in itself.
We're always on hand to advise on gifts for her in either our Alnwick store or online via email. We have an in depth knowledge of all of our products and take great pleasure in assisting our customers in finding the perfect gifts.
Much love
Rachel and the Jobsons Team x